Appreciation Class

Okay. Now a track back to our ABC days when we're being taught of the word" APPRECIATION"

Appreciation only comes in when a friendship/relationship is involoved.
Regardless the length of relationship.

So now, my thoughts are damn simple.
I can do anything, everything within my limits as long as i feel i'm being APPRECIATATED.
Even if, for a long lost friend.
Even if, for a new found friend.
Even if, for a 8year friend who doesn't know what i've been offering.

All i ever need is a sincere appreciation.
Nothing more do i need, not in material wise.

A simple sentence " She's our friend"
Do i have the obligations?
Or am i just stuck in the curse that once a group, always one?
I seriously do not mind.
But, have she ever made me feel that way?
For all the things i've done, Appreciate or not?!

Gerald, Bao. I'll dive in anything for you guys.
Because i know i'll be APPRECIATED and returned in every other ways.
And no matter what happens, you guys will always not forget to remind me that i'm a part of you.

Friends treat each other with mutual respect.
One of the ways to respect is to discuss everything together before they decide on something.
They'll share their views and ask others what they think of this.
And not to conclude and command/demand others to do what they think is the best for the group.
If he asks, other parties will feel better about the whole issue cause their views weigh.
And in turn, it'll be much easier to convince them to accept his point.
If he commands, other parties will feel obligated and therefore raised further issues.
It's like a leader who came up with a perfect plan and ask his followers to execute it.
We do not need a leader.
And we're not his followers.
All we need is a friend who is willing to listen to us, respect our views and what we think about his perfect plan.
I mean these are all basics of friendships, no?


Everything aside, A random note.
Cel, i'm not those kind to take back their words.
But i hope you realised what digressed into this situation.
I hope you can understand i'm not directing at you or kk.
I treasure our friendship.



Orientus @ 21st Nov 08.
=)